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Same-sex parents through open embryo donation.
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Choosing not to Grieve this Mother's Day
This can be an upsetting day when you're trying to conceive. I’m not upset, but my feelings are more complicated than in years past.
Keira
May 10, 20203 min read
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The Weird and Wonderful World of Facebook Groups
Want to match with donors? There’s a group for that. Want to get advice from someone who's been through the process? There’s a group.
Keira
May 4, 20203 min read
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About Time
Sheltering in place is like driving a car. Hear me out. A few years back, I had a job in a city almost 2 hours away from where I lived.
Keira
May 2, 20203 min read
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The Costs of EDA
I should start this post by saying that every medical and legal situation will be different, so the costs of EDA (or Embryo Donation) for...
Keira
Apr 27, 20203 min read
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What I've Learned About Grants
Over about an 18 month period, I applied to seven separate fertility grant programs. I picked up the following while navigating that world.
Keira
Apr 25, 20203 min read
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Our Act of Hope
"Loving a child and endeavoring to raise them into a good person seems like the ultimate act of hope. This is our act of hope."
Keira
Apr 20, 20203 min read
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Bitterness, Queerness, and Pregnancy
Another day, another pregnancy announcement on Facebook, another “are you expecting?” postcard from my insurance provider in the mail....
Keira
Apr 18, 20204 min read
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10 (Non-TTC) Facts About Me
Hi there! I’ve written before that TTC (especially for a researcher and planner like me) can turn into an all-consuming task. I am so...
Keira
Apr 13, 20202 min read
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The Trap of Over-Planning
I am a problem solver. A planner. If there is a question that needs to be answered, I want to address it immediately, usually by doing...
Keira
Apr 11, 20203 min read
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Embryo Donation Terminology
The following are a few common EDA terms I use (and some I don't)! Every family (and every donor-recipient relationship) is different....
Keira
Apr 4, 20203 min read
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Grief in Queer Conception
Our journey to parenthood wasn’t undertaken on a whim. But moral superiority is a cold comfort when all I really want is to be a mom.
Keira
Mar 30, 20203 min read
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The World is on Fire. I Still Want a Baby.
It's March 27th, 2020, and my spouse and I are getting ready to celebrate our 5th anniversary. It's Friday, and the much-needed end to a...
Keira
Mar 27, 20202 min read
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Private Embryo Donation - When is it a Match?
My spouse and I consider ourselves an online dating success story - so it only makes sense that we turned to online matching to build our...
Keira
Mar 22, 20202 min read
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Timeline of an Embryo Donation
As always, each situation and each family will be different. However, I wanted to catalogue the timeline of our donation and conception...
Keira
Mar 17, 20203 min read
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Deciding to Become Embryo Recipients
Sometime in the late Spring of 2018, my spouse Sami and I started talking more seriously about having children. Like most couples, it was...
Keira
Mar 8, 20203 min read
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WTF is EDA?
“We’re going to conceive our child using privately donated embryos.” This statement is often met with a blank stare. My friends and...
Keira
Mar 2, 20203 min read
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